What do you do when people draw away?

What do you do when people draw away?

a) try to understand what went wrong and fix it,
b) cry and get depressed,
c) tell them to go f*$% themselves

I've tried all of the above.  Right now, I think my vote would go to "C".  Okay, so maybe I wouldn't "tell" them, but I would "think" it and silently scream it at them.

Judgments

The original article behind the picture is here.  Chances are you've already seen it since it's gone viral.  I just saw it today but it brought to the forefront of my mind a question that has been disturbing me all month.  How judgmental am I?  Like everyone else I don't like people judging me.  Making a snap opinion based on the way I look, the clothes I wear, etc.  And yet, don't I do the same? Isn't that very normal?  Is a snap judgment bad only when it leads you to treat the person differently?

I don't know. But I hope I figure it out.